Steve & Mia discuss the end result of that Kanye/Khalifa Twitter squabble
With our first question this week, we decided to weigh in on an issue that has been very much in the news lately: anal play.
First, some background: Hip-hop stars Kanye West and Wiz Khalifa got in a big Twitter feud that started after Khalifa referred to marijuana using the street term “kk.” West mistakenly thought Khalifa was talking about his wife, Kim Kardashian West, and began lobbing insults at Khalifa via social media.
Amber Rose, who has been romantically linked to West and was married to Khalifa, jumped in and alluded to a certain type of backdoor action she claimed she used to do to West. He denied ever engaging in that kind of hanky-panky, tweeting, “I stay away from that area all together.”
It didn’t take long for #kanyeanal to become a thing on Twitter. Rose and Kardashian decided to make nice last week by posing for a selfie they each posted. Then West and Khalifa made up. West tweeted on Tuesday: “Me and Wiz spoke yesterday. Great convo. All positive.”
Mia: My take on this is that if that’s West’s twist, what’s the big dang deal? There are a lot of nerve endings in the end zone, so to speak. Enjoying prostate stimulation _ aka butt play _ doesn’t mean a guy is less of a man or has homosexual tendencies. Backlash over Rose’s tweet shows just how close-minded we still are when it comes to sex.
Steve: Is butt-play gay-play? That depends. Virtually all men like oral sex, and no one accuses them of being gay if they’re doing the oral stuff with a woman. So why should butt play raise a question? Well, it’s not nearly as popular as oral sex. But if some woman turns you on to anal play, don’t feel like you’ll get hit like Kanye. That’s just wrongheaded bias.
Q: Me and this guy I have been with haven’t had sex in a month. He’s always playing video games! As soon as he gets up in the morning, he heads to the computer and stays on it all day if he’s not working. The other night I had to beg him to come to bed at 3 in the morning! What can I do about this?
Steve: Tell him you’re thinking about being in a sexual video game, and you’d like him to work with you a bit and give you advice.
Mia: Humph, It could be worse. He could be on crack or be a gambling addict. I don’t blame you for not wanting to be second to a game console, though. You’re too cute for that, right? Tell him that you feel ignored and see if he unplugs. If not, move on.
Steve is a 50-something married man who’s been around the block. Mia is a younger, recently married woman with an all-together different attitude. They may not agree, but they have plenty of answers.
This story was originally published February 10, 2016 at 11:37 PM with the headline "Steve & Mia discuss the end result of that Kanye/Khalifa Twitter squabble."