I can see your stares! I get them every time I say we are Twinning our mosques and synagogues this month.
"Really?" people ask, jaws dropping.
For the third year, this exercise of interfaith exchange has progressed in good faith. Synagogues agree to twin with nearby mosques, with congregants visiting each other during Jewish Sabbath and Muslim Friday prayer services and, in some cases, inviting guest speakers or jointly carrying out a community service project like doing a Hanukkah and Eid party together.
I have personally taken students to the synagogue. One young Pakistani-born boy marveled at how cordial Jews were and how familiar the service is. One Palestinian girl at first refused to enter the synagogue but, after meeting a warm female rabbi, left saying how different it was from what she'd thought.
Many people wonder about the term "Twinning" to describe the event. But the history of the Muslims genealogically is an ancestral path that leads to Ishmael, a son of Abraham, while that of the Bani Israel, the Quranic term for the Jewish people, leads to another of Abraham's sons, Isaac.
So we're children of two brothers -- a good reminder, actually -- since around this time, Muslims commemorate Abraham's story during the hajj, the pilgrimage to Mecca, on Eid al-Adha.
Twinning was initiated to encourage a better understanding between Muslims and Jews living in the West, regardless of political inclinations, with a more direct opportunity to have a dialogue about their faith traditions specifically.
In Toronto, in addition to Jewish visits to hear imams' Friday sermons at mosques and Muslim visits to hear the Torah read in synagogues, the Noor Cultural Centre -- which promotes cultural education and bridge-building in the Muslim Canadian community -- has organized a weekend-long educational study conducted by Rabbi Dr. Reuven Firestone and Dr. Mahmoud Ayoub. The focus of the study is to reach out to students of both communities and discuss images of war and violence in Jews' and Muslims' scriptural texts.
According to Walter Ruby, the man behind the scenes at the New York-based Centre for Ethnic Understanding: "Twinning has brought together thousands of Muslims and Jews to jointly promote tolerance, understanding, education and goodwill in an effort to combat Islamophobia and anti-Semitism."
It has grown from a mere 50 places joining hands last year in North America to more than 100 mosques and 100 synagogues in 22 countries on four continents.
Normally hosted the first weekend in November, Twinning events also take place throughout the month, providing meaningful exchanges for Muslims and Jews to understand each other's faith -- or participate in community initiatives, no matter how creative or how basic, like simply having a rabbi and an imam chat over coffee.
In Toronto, Dr. Barbara Landau plays a key role in promoting the Twinning and works to ensure such events are not limited only to November.
Landau is a friend and long-standing peace activist in Toronto among Jews and Muslims. She has participated in missions to conflict areas in the Middle East to share how Canadians can serve as role models. She has worked tirelessly with others, including her co-chair at the Canadian Association of Jews and Muslims, Shahid Akhtar, since 9/11 to see that young people in our communities understand each other and work on common projects for the goodness of humanity.
"The Weekend of Twinning has time and time again shown us that Jews and Muslims can not only live together peacefully as neighbors, but also partner together to build a better community at-large," said Rabbi Marc Schneier, president of the Foundation for Ethnic Understanding and lead organizer of the Weekend of Twinning.
And, with many more mosques and synagogues notifying her of their willingness to participate in the event, Landau is optimistic that next year's Twinning weekend will be even bigger and better.
Contact Alli, the author of 12 books on Islam, at email@example.com.